Your Questions Answered. Your Path Made Clear.
Understand how Capstone Copilot supports you through your season of change, and discover the clarity and confidence that comes from having a trusted guide.
Is my coaching conversation confidential?
Yes. What you share with Capstone Copilot stays between us. Your coaching sessions are completely confidential unless: you give permission for something to be share, you express plans to harm yourself or someone else, or the law requires disclosure. Confidentiality allows you to be open, honest, and fully supported during coaching.
Coaching vs. Counseling
Coaching is different from therapy, counseling, consulting, or mentoring. Coaching focuses on where you are right now and where you’re headed next. The goal is to help you gain clarity about your vision, remove obstacles, accelerate personal growth, and create practical results that empower you to live your best life—professionally and personally.
We can work in any area of life: relationships, finances, spiritual life, work and business, physical health, or your home and environment.
Counseling, on the other hand, typically focuses on past experiences that still cause struggle or keep you stuck. In coaching, we may briefly look at the past only to help clarify your present, but coaching will not focus on resolving past wounds.
A simple rule of thumb:
If your past is still an issue, counseling is the best option.
If your past is simply a fact—even if the circumstances were difficult—you’re likely ready for coaching.
If it becomes clear that counseling would be helpful, I will let you know. Some people choose to work with both a counselor and a coach at the same time, using each service to support different areas of growth.
What is ShowUp9™?
ShowUp9™ is a simple framework that helps you understand how you’re showing up in your relationships, leadership, and daily moments. It highlights nine core ways of being—present, honest, humble, hopeful, responsible, courageous, curious, centered, and committed—that shape belonging, connection, and trust.
You can use it as a quick self-check before or during important moments, or to reflect afterward on how you showed up.
Learn more and see the full breakdown here: ShowUp9™ → https://www.capstonecopilot.com/showup9-the-relational-gauges-in-your-cockpit/
What Is the Pavao Process™?
The Pavao Process™ is the identity-level backbone of the Capstone Method.
It builds on proven coaching frameworks like Maxwell’s ROADMAP, the IFC’s AOOA structure, and the GROW model — but goes deeper, guiding clients through transformation at the level where real change happens:
The Four Identity Stages:
- Orientation & Awareness — seeing your season, story, and identity as they truly are.
- Identity Disentangling — releasing roles, fears, and beliefs that no longer belong to you.
- Identity Reconstruction — rebuilding the Self God is forming in you.
- Identity Embodiment — living as the integrated, aligned person you’re becoming.
Where other models help you take action, the Pavao Process helps you become someone who can take the right action with peace and clarity.
It honors traditional coaching structure while expanding it into a spiritual and identity-shaping journey — one that aligns your internal world with the life God is calling you to build.
Why Is It Called a Transformative Experience?
Researchers use the term Transformative Experience to describe a rare kind of change — one that reshapes both what you know and who you are. It alters your identity, worldview, emotional grounding, and life direction.
The Pavao Process™ is intentionally designed to create this kind of shift.
This is what makes Capstone Copilot different from traditional coaching:
you’re not just solving problems — you’re becoming someone new.
What Results Can I Expect?
Clients often experience:
- renewed peace and emotional grounding
- clarity about who they are and where they are going
- freedom from old patterns, roles, and limiting beliefs
- restored confidence and internal alignment
- a sense of purpose that feels lived, not forced
- a practical, actionable path forward
The Pavao Process™ is not just about improving your life —
it’s about transforming the person who is living it.
Can I preview Capstone concepts before my ARC Discovery Call?
Yes. When you book your ARC Discovery Call, you’ll receive a preview of the core Capstone Copilot tools that help map your journey and prepare you for our session. These include three downloadable guides:
- The Four Levels of Identity Work
A simple breakdown of the inner work we’ll explore—Awareness, Disentangling, Reconstruction, and Embodiment. - The Season Map
A clear, visual framework to help you understand which season you’re in—Preparation, Pruning, Growth, or Breakthrough. - The ShowUp9™ Evaluation
A quick relational self-check to help you assess how you’re showing up in your relationships, leadership, and daily moments.
download each PDF directly here:
[Four Levels PDF] | [Season Map PDF] | [ShowUp9™ Evaluation PDF]
Pavao Process™ is not just about improving your life —
it’s about transforming the person who is living it.
How the Pavao Process™ Fits Into Your Coaching Journey
1. The Capstone Path™ — the journey you can see.
This simple roadmap helps you understand your season (Preparation, Pruning, Growth, or Breakthrough), map your ARC from your current story to your desired story, and choose the next right step with confidence. It’s your external orientation: season, stage, direction, and strategy.
Want to create your own ARC statement? You can use the free ARC Statement Generator to draft your current story, desired story, and next right step:
👉 Create Your ARC Statement
2. The Pavao Process™ — the transformation happening inside you.
As you move through seasons and stories, your identity shifts through the four stages: Orientation & Awareness, Identity Disentangling, Identity Reconstruction, and Identity Embodiment. This is the inner work that makes change sustainable.
3. The Relational Dimension — Belonging and Connection.
Lasting transformation requires relationships. Belonging means being seen, known, and valued. Connection means aligning with the people, environments, and opportunities that help your story move forward. You grow in relationship with God (Pilot), yourself (Copilot), and the community around you.
Underlying Alignment: Identity → Destiny → Purpose → Peace.
This progression is the quiet operating system underneath the entire Capstone Method. As your identity shifts, your outer world begins to align naturally with God’s direction for your life.
Together — Capstone Path™ + Pavao Process™ + Connection = Real Transformation.
Your external clarity, your internal identity work, your relational support, and your alignment with God all work together. This is how a person moves from confusion to clarity, from clarity to confidence, and from confidence into calling and peace.
Do you help with systems, tools, or workflow organization?
Yes. Many clients need support not just with clarity, but with the practical structure that helps them move forward. I help you build simple systems using tools like Google Workspace, Excel, Ninety.io or other operating systems, Canva for communication, and even Zapier for basic automations. You don’t need technical skills—I help you choose and set up only what supports your goals.
What if I need help organizing my business or leadership workflow?
I can help you build clarity into your structure as well as your decisions. I’ve worked with multiple management operating systems—including Ninety.io and EOS®—and can help you create simple, sustainable systems for priorities, accountability, communication, meetings, and project flow. We’ll choose tools that match your comfort level and build only what truly helps you move forward.
Can you help with online presence, social media, or basic marketing?
Absolutely. Whether you need help getting a simple website started, organizing your online presence, improving communication, or building the basics of social media or marketing, I can guide you. We keep it simple, sustainable, and aligned with your goals so you can move forward with confidence instead of overwhelm.
How can I start working with Capstone Copilot?
Click Start Connecting and I’ll follow up with a thoughtful, no-obligation email (or text/WeChat if you prefer).
The Pavao Process™
The Pavao Process™ is the core identity-shifting framework behind Capstone Copilot. It’s a structured yet deeply personal path that helps you understand the season you’re in, regain emotional grounding, and move forward with clarity, peace, and direction.
Your journey unfolds through four intentional stages:
Orientation & Awareness
You begin by understanding your current season and gaining clarity about the story you’re in. Here, we identify what is shaping you—internally and externally—so you can see yourself, your patterns, and your influences with honesty and compassion.
Identity Disentangling
This is where you gently release the beliefs, roles, fears, and identities that no longer serve who God is calling you to become. By untangling old narratives, you create space for emotional peace, spiritual groundedness, and renewed direction.
Identity Reconstruction
Once space has been created, we rebuild.
You reclaim strengths, re-author your internal story, practice new patterns, and define the emerging version of yourself. This is where clarity turns into alignment and hope turns into structure.
Identity Embodiment
Here, clarity becomes momentum.
Insight turns into steady, practical action—habits, systems, and rhythms that support who you’re becoming. You’re not doing it alone; as your copilot, I’m beside you as you step into this new identity with confidence.